squander

“His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires.” II Peter 1:3-4 (continued below)

The lady with a rich foreign accent bent down and whispered something in my ear at the plush restaurant overlooking Fenway Park, “Mr. Davis, your bill has been taken care of. The house is yours.” I told my family ‘the house was ours’ and we ordered accordingly! There are at least three ways I could have squandered this golden opportunity:

  1. I could have refused to believe the kind waitress. I could have said to my family, “That crazy lady said ‘the house was ours,’ but don’t believe it. It is too good to be true. You know nothing like this has ever happened to us before, so why should it happen now? You may only order a peanut butter and jelly sandwich with chips. You may get lemon with your water if you’d like.” Wouldn’t my family have loved me for making such a proclamation?
  2. I could have failed to recognize what ‘the house is yours’ meant. Before eating we were invited down to the field where the Red Sox were taking batting practice. We were not the only fans there, but it was a great chance to say ‘hello’ to a player or to get an autograph. Taylor and Kinsey, baseballs in hand, were standing close to two men when a tall player walked out of the dugout. “Mikey!” one of the men shouted and the player came over and hugged them. Some kids scampered over to get Mikey’s autograph and he graciously signed as he visited with his friends. Kinsey was standing so close she could have reached out and patted Mikey on the back. She looked over to Taylor and asked, “Should I get this guy’s autograph?” Taylor whispered, “No, I don’t know anyone named Mikey on Boston’s team.” In the first inning of the game (viewed from our seats behind home plate :-) ), a runner got on base allowing the clean-up hitter to come to bat. “Oh no!” I heard Taylor moan. I asked, “What’s wrong?” Taylor pointed his finger and said, “That’s Mikey!” As a golden voice announced third baseman Mike Lowell was coming to the plate, Kinsey asked, “Taylor why didn’t you tell me to get his autograph? He’s one of their best players!” “I didn’t recognize him!” Taylor replied. Mikey hit a homerun that night to help the Red Sox win the game.
  3. I could have taken the family to eat at McDonald’s right before going to Fenway Park and we could have been so stuffed with Big Macs and fries that we weren’t even hungry. What a shame that would have been.

I’m glad I didn’t ruin this part of our trip, but I wonder sometimes if I make worse mistakes when God whispers, “The house is yours.” The apostle wrote, “His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness…” and I think, “But God doesn’t really mean ‘everything.’” And in my refusal to believe what the Holy Spirit says is true, I settle for ineffective living and little witness to the power and goodness of God.

Or perhaps I don’t recognize that God’s great promises are for me. “I am with you always… to the very end of the age.” “But Christ was just saying that to his disciples two thousand years ago,” I argue. Perhaps Jesus would answer, “But you are closer to the end of the age than they were! Don’t you recognize I am talking to you? When you receive my precious promises for yourself you are able to participate in my divine nature and escape the corruption of the world. Don’t you remember that multitudes rejected God because they failed to recognize me? Pray for eyes to see and ears to hear and the willingness to obey.”

Or perhaps deep down I believe what God says is true and perhaps I even recognize his promises are for me, but when the invitation comes to participate in the divine nature and add to my faith all the essentials God offers, I say, “No thanks, I’m full.” And when the Father asks (though he already knows the answer), “Why are you full?” I must admit that with the brief time I’ve been given on this earth I have chosen to pursue lesser things. “Why don’t you sit in my presence and learn of me?” Jesus asks. “Well Lord, you know I’m a big Red Sox fan now and, you see, the playoffs have just started and I’m sure hoping they make it to the World Series, so maybe I’ll get back with you at the end of the month.” Of course when baseball season ends another activity will fill me up so I won’t be hungry for the things that count. Could I actually exchange true riches for a bowl of porridge? This is one of the devil’s key strategies in our land if you’ve not noticed. He doesn’t mind too much if Christians take their few minutes of worship every week as long as it is just ‘token time.’ If hearts are set on things other than God the enemy knows his kingdom is safe (for the moment). But how he lashes out when a believer says, “These fleeting pleasures of the world are not what it is all about! I’m not going to fill up on junk when a feast is being offered! Lord, forgive me. I am hungry for you! Fill me with your Spirit and use me as your instrument.” Though the devil despises such wisdom, the Master says, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.”

“For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love. For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. But if anyone does not have them, he is near-sighted and blind, and has forgotten that he has been cleansed from his past sins.” II Peter 1:5-9

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VIP

“Mrs. Davis, you and your family will be VIPs for the entire weekend!” The kind lady on the phone shared this news after a nurse encouraged me to fill out an application from The Jack & Jill Cancer Foundation, a foundation that encourages families struggling with this disease. After seeing the hardship his two children endured as their mother died of breast cancer, Jon Albert honored his wife, Jill, by setting up a foundation to serve families going through similar struggles. “Since we are based in Atlanta, we usually bring families here,” the representative shared, “but since you live in Atlanta, we thought we’d send you elsewhere. Do you like baseball?” After Susan shared that we did she was told about a professional team that has partnered with their foundation. This team has had a pretty good season (they currently have the best record in baseball); they play in a place called Fenway Park.

This evening all five of us get to fly to Boston for a special weekend. (I told Susan it was good to be a VIP before I RIP. She didn’t think that was very funny…) Seriously, this is an incredible blessing. We are to explore the city Saturday morning and go meet the players and tour the park in the afternoon before watching the Red Sox play Saturday night. Not wanting to be like the nine ungrateful lepers, I’ll be sure to thank the team, the foundation, the hotel, and the chauffeurs that will drive us around. We would never dream of such extravagant treatment. Just being together as a family for the weekend will be the best part for me. I think that is what Mr. Alpert had in mind.

The Father has even better dreams for his children. He knows what each of us will face on this earth. Jesus said, “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” He also said, “I am going to my Father’s house to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.” This promise of a coming reunion is one of the things that gives us great hope, but I think there is another powerful truth the Father wants us to embrace. If you are a child of God, you are a VIP. Such a statement almost sounds too vain to write, but it is not my idea. If I go around calling myself a ‘very important person,’ I’ll be a nuisance, but if God calls me a VIP it is a different matter. Such a proclamation from above goes far beyond the sentiments we as parents have for our own children. In addition to saying, “You are loved, you are valuable, and you are constantly on my mind,” God says, “You are chosen, you are royal, and you are destined to reign.”

We say, “Who… me? I thought I was to be humble, lowly, and meek.” But believing what God says does not make one arrogant; it makes one wise. He says, “My children are ‘very important people’ with ‘very important responsibilities.’”

“But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy. Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires that war against your soul. Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.” I Peter 2:9-12

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candlesticks

“Yes officers… the silver is his. Jean, why didn’t you take the candlesticks? I told you they were yours too.” The policemen were perplexed as they held Jean Valjean with a bag of silverware and silver plates. They were confident they had captured a thief in the French town, but the bishop said they were mistaken as he handed the big man the candlesticks. Indeed Jean Valjean, who had just spent nineteen years in prison, was a guilty man. He had stolen from the good bishop, but this extra act of kindness caused a hardened man to spend the rest of his life trying to show similar mercy to others. Victor Hugo’s novel “Les Miserables” was written in 1862 but has touched countless hearts with the powerful message of redemption.

I told this story before communion on Sunday and was interrupted before finishing. With tears in her eyes someone said, “That story reminds me of myself and I want to thank all of you who have shown me mercy.” Then a man said, “But we only love because we’ve been in the same spot ourselves.” And another said, “That is my story too…” And with tender emotions we realized we are all in the same boat.

We may not have stolen the silver, but we’ve sinned against the kindest Father. We’ve ignored his love, we’ve disregarded his blessings, and we’ve wandered away. “But while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” As we stood guilty, the Innocent gave us the candlesticks… and more. He gave us his life.

So do I follow Jean Valjean’s example and live a life of mercy and love? Do I extend the hand of friendship to the downtrodden? Do I ignore unjust treatment and offer forgiveness? Or do the enemies of mercy and compassion rule my heart: judgment, condemnation, accusation, pride… God tells me what wins, I just need to remember it: “Mercy triumphs over judgment!”

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.” Ephesians 4:32-5:2

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know

Almost fifteen years ago with two outs in the bottom of the ninth inning, Sid Bream, arguably the slowest member of the Atlanta Braves, stood on second base with his team trailing the Pittsburg Pirates by one run. This was the seventh and deciding game of the National League Championship Series. Terry Pendleton had just scored to cut the Pirate lead to 2-1 and David Justice stood on third. With only ten at-bats the entire season, third-string catcher Francisco Cabrera came to the plate with the bases loaded. He hit a single and leftfielder Barry Bonds, then a Pirate, fielded the ball and threw it to the plate. In what seemed like a slow motion movie, Sid Bream, running as fast as his legs would carry him, slid under the tag. The stadium erupted as the Braves won and went to the World Series. (Oh for the days…)

Last year, our daughter, Kinsey, played on the same softball team as Stephanie Pendleton, one of Terry’s children. At a game last fall I asked Terry about Sid Bream. Back in 1992, our son Taylor, just a six-year-old, was given a baseball signed by all the Braves and I noticed Sid Bream wrote “Rom 5:8″ underneath his signature. This Scripture says: “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” “Was Sid Bream a strong Christian?” I asked. Terry, now a coach for the Braves, gave the strongest confirmation one could imagine. “Everyone in baseball knew of Sid’s commitment to Jesus. He not only talked about the Lord, he lived his faith. Sid Bream was the real deal.” Terry went on to share specific stories that demonstrated how Sid let the Light of Christ shine in his life on the ball field and beyond.

I knew about Sid Bream from watching him play and reading about him in the news. I felt sure he was a Christian, but Terry Pendleton could go a step further; he knew him. Sid was his teammate. Terry played third base while Sid played first. Terry traveled with him, ate with him, and hung out with him. Terry saw how Sid reacted in every day situations when the cameras were not rolling and no fans were around. Knowing a person is a little different than knowing about a person.

The apostles used such arguments (with other proofs) to share that Jesus really was the Messiah. “We did not follow cleverly invented stories when we told you about the power and coming of our Lord Jesus Christ, but we were eyewitnesses of his majesty. For he received honor and glory from God the Father when the voice came to him from the Majestic Glory, saying, ‘This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased.’ We ourselves heard this voice that came from heaven when we were with him on the sacred mountain. And we have the word of the prophets made more certain, and you will do well to pay attention to it, as to a light shining in a dark place, until the day dawns and the morning star rises in your hearts.” (II Peter 1:16-19)

To know God… to know Jesus… this is what it is all about. God wants us to know him and he invites us to pursue him. Though he knew it might cost him everything, Paul wanted to know Christ. (See Phil 3:7-16) People throughout the ages have found this to be the only quest that really matters. Jesus called it eternal life… and he is still at work.

“Father, the time has come. Glorify your Son, that your Son may glorify you. For you granted him authority over all people that he might give eternal life to all those you have given him. Now this is eternal life: that they may know you the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent… Righteous Father, though the world does not know you, I know you, and they know that you have sent me. I have made you known to them, and will continue to make you known in order that the love you have for me may be in them and that I myself may be in them.” (John 17:1-3, 25-26)

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friends

Jonathan Aitken was a Member of Parliament in England for twenty-three years before pleading guilty to a perjury charge that led to an eighteen month sentence. In prison, this well known author and politician became a Christian. It is not surprising that he was befriended by an American who also became a Christian in the midst of legal woes. With an office right next to Richard Nixon’s, Charles Colson found himself scrambling with other members of the President’s staff to protect himself from the Watergate investigation. But his encounter with Jesus Christ brought the special counsel to the President some difficult decisions. In May of 1974, against the advice of his lawyers, Colson pled guilty of attempting to do damage to a political foe. By throwing himself totally on the mercy of the court, some began to wonder if “conversion rumors” of Nixon’s famous “hatchet-man” might be true. Newspaper columnists were of different opinions. One wrote, “I cannot accept the sudden coming to Christ of Charles Colson. If he isn’t embarrassed by this sudden excess of piety, then surely the Lord must be,” while another wrote, “If Mr. Colson can repent his sins, there just has to be hope for everybody.”

Judge Gerhard Gesell did not show much mercy as he fined Colson $5000 and sentenced him to one to three years in prison. The test of time has removed all doubt of the validity of Colson’s conversion. For over thirty years he has been an ambassador for God’s truth. As the leader of Prison Fellowship, Colson has helped countless prisoners learn of God’s mercy. Encouraged by his friend, Jonathan Aitken also now serves as a director of Prison Fellowship International.

Aitken has recently written a book entitled, “JOHN NEWTON – From Disgrace To Amazing Grace.” Like Charles Colson, John Newton reversed a life of opposing God to become a clear spokesman of the Good News to all who would listen. Newton constantly proclaimed that if he could repent and be saved there was hope for anyone. Though learning of God from his mom at a young age, John Newton traveled a path of rebellion that included the horrible life of a slave trader. But God rescued this sinner and we have all sung the hymn that tells his story. These are the original words:

Amazing grace! (how sweet the sound) that saved a wretch like me!
I once was lost, but now am found; was blind, but now I see.

‘Twas grace that taught my heart to fear, and grace my fears relieved;
How precious did that grace appear, the hour I first believed!

Thro’ many dangers, toils and snares, I have already come;
‘Tis grace has brought me safe thus far, and grace will lead me home.

The Lord has promised good to me, His Word my hope secures;
He will my shield and portion be, as long as life endures.

Yes, when this flesh and heart shall fail, and mortal life shall cease,
I shall possess, within the veil, a life of joy and peace.

The earth shall soon dissolve like snow, the sun forbear to shine;
But God, who called me here below, will be forever mine.

John Newton’s best friend at the time he wrote ‘Amazing Grace’ was one of the greatest English poets of the eighteenth century. A descendent of the seventeenth century poet, John Donne, William Cowper was a Christian who struggled with torturous bouts of depression. He and Newton lived within walking distance of each other in the small town of Olney where John Newton was pastor of a church. These friends encouraged one another in faith and in writing. OLNEY HYMNS was published in 1779 and contains 281 works of Newton and 67 works of Cowper. Some believe Cowper would never have survived the mental torments he battled had it not been for his good friend who would sometimes spend sleepless nights serving his brother in Christ. Just as Chuck Colson had no idea how God would use him to bless the Body of Christ as he sat in an Alabama prison, I doubt John Newton or William Cowper realized how their words would encourage the Body of Christ for centuries. Just before entering one of his darkest struggles, Cowper penned these words of insightful truth:

God moves in a mysterious way, his wonders to perform;
He plants his footsteps in the sea, and rides upon the storm.

Deep in unfathomable mines, of never-failing skill;
He treasures up his bright designs, and works his sovereign will.

Ye fearful saints, fresh courage take; the clouds ye so much dread
Are big with mercy, and shall break in blessings on your head.

Judge not the Lord by feeble sense, but trust him for his grace;
Behind a frowning providence He hides a smiling face.

His purposes will ripen fast, unfolding every hour;
The bud may have a bitter taste, but sweet will be the flower.

Blind unbelief is sure to err, and scan his work in vain;
God is his own interpreter, and He will make it plain.

Thank God for good friends. Be a good friend. Rejoice that Jesus calls us friends!

“Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.” John 15:13-15

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